People in consensually non-monogamous relationships do indeed report experiencing stigma in the form of social exclusion in public.
Despite rising interest in polyamory and open relationships, new research shows that people in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships report experiencing a negative social stigma that takes a toll on their well-being. Prior research has found that people tend to view consensually non-monogamous relationships more negatively than monogamy, and a new study in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin suggests that public opinion can have real-world effects.
‘Consensually non-monogamous romantic and sexual relationships tend to be stigmatized because of a lack of exposure to the concept.’
People in consensually non-monogamous relationships do indeed report experiencing stigma in a variety of ways. Furthermore, this experienced stigma is associated with psychological distress.Researchers surveyed 372 people in CNM relationships for their first study, asking if and how they have experienced this stigma.
Roughly 40% of people in CNM relationships reported experiencing a negative stigma as a result. Of those who reported experiencing no stigma, most (70%) limited the number of people who knew about their relationship.
Stigma Toward Individuals Engaged in Open Relationship
Four themes emerged among those who said they had experienced a CNM-related stigma such as expressions of discomfort or disapproval of their CNM relationship; loss of resources or threatening behavior; devaluation or diminishing of their character and devaluation or diminishing of their relationship.Previous research has found that people with marginalized identities (e.g., LGBTQ individuals) experience stigma in a variety of unique ways. They found a similar pattern for people in consensually non-monogamous relationships.
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They noted that this association is also connected to anticipated stigma (the extent to which people expect to be treated or thought of poorly) and internalized stigma (the degree to which people feel guilty about their CNM relationship).
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Gaining a better understanding of stigma and how it is linked to well-being will make it possible to develop and implement interventions to effectively mitigate the harmful effects of minority stress for consensually non-monogamous people.
Source-Eurekalert