Self-Esteem Low Among Dating App Users

They might be tall, dark and handsome but men on the dating app Tinder suffer from low self-esteem, a study found. A survey of more than 1,300 men and women revealed that those who use the highly popular smartphone app tend to be less happy with their looks. Psychologists warn the app could be bad for your health, with users drawn into a downward spiral of physical comparisons.

The dating app involves rating profiles by swiping right if they fancy the person and left to reject. If two users deem each other acceptable, then they are ‘matched’ and can begin communicating with one another. But users could also believe there is always something better around the corner, or rather with the next swipe of their screen, even while questioning their own worth.

The study, Love me Tinder: Body image and Psychosocial Functioning Among Men and Women, which was presented at the annual American Psychological Association conference in Washington D.C., says there were significant differences between those who use Tinder and those who don’t on how they looked at and felt about their body.

Professor Jessica Strübel of the University of North Texas said ‘Tinder users reported having lower levels of satisfaction with their faces and bodies and having lower levels of self-worth than the men and women who did not use Tinder.”

The study involved 1,044 women and 273 men undergraduates who completed questionnaires about their Tinder use, body image, perceived objectification and psychological well-being. One in ten used Tinder and both male and female users reported less satisfaction with their bodies and looks, compared to non-users.

However, only male Tinder users reported lower levels of self-esteem. One reason for this could be the ratio of user’s gender on it. There are twice as many men as women, according to the study.

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Prof Strübel added "We found that being actively involved with Tinder, regardless of the user's gender, was associated with body dissatisfaction, body shame, body monitoring, internalisation of societal expectations of beauty, comparing oneself physically to others, and reliance on media for information on appearance and attractiveness.”

She argued the way people select possible dates means persistent users may begin to feel depersonalised and disposable in their social interactions and develop heightened awareness and criticism of their looks and bodies.

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Typically, men are more likely to swipe right than women. So simply saying “yes” with the flick of a finger leads to the likelihood of higher rejection rates. Previous research has found men like to send a lot of messages or swipe right to attractive female users, but they don’t get a lot of responses because they are more focused on their own interests, and are oblivious of their attractiveness to potential dates.

On Tinder, men are being placed in a position that women often find themselves in, especially in the dating scene. Now, men are being evaluated and analyzed whether or not they have the qualities to be someone’s potential match.

Being active on social media, including dating apps, regardless of gender, is linked to body dissatisfaction, body shame, body monitoring, and internalizing societal expectations of beauty. It also lends itself to comparing ourselves physically to others. It can even lead us to question our own self worth.

Tinder users should apply the adage, “it’s not me, it’s you”, when they get a left swipe.

Prof Strübel said that the study represents one of the first to examine the connection between Tinder use and men's and women's psychosocial functioning. The findings suggest that being involved with Tinder is associated with decrements in psychosocial functioning and these negative effects exist equally for male and female users.

Dr Jess Carbino, Tinder's in-house sociologist said “Given the small sample size and unrepresentative nature of the sample, no actual findings can be established from an empirical perspective. Moreover, any serious social scientist would strongly question and doubt the validity of their results.”

Additional research is needed to help psychologists better understand the immediate, and perhaps long-term, effects of individuals' involvement with social media platforms. This might help compare the influences of different types of sites, in relation to each other as well as traditional media, on psychosocial functioning and body image.

However just because users tended to have lower self-esteem, this doesn't necessarily mean that the app is causing it. Those with lower self-esteem are simply drawn more to these types of apps, she suggested.

Going forward, researchers want to look into other aspects of psychological well-being like depression, narcissism and eating disorders.

Source-Medindia